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Overview
Replying to all personal messages in one specific window each day instead of context-switching every time a notification arrives.
Why it works
Relieves the constant low-grade anxiety of "I need to reply" — a uniquely ADHD tax on relationships. Tells your brain there is a designated reply window, so unreplied messages stop feeling urgent between windows.
Steps
- 1
Pick a time (e.g., 5pm) that becomes your daily reply window.
- 2
Reply to everyone during that window, in one go.
- 3
Ignore messaging apps outside the window. Turn off notifications if you can.
Common Pitfalls
- Getting distracted by social media during the reply window.
- Forgetting the window — set a recurring alarm.
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Last updated: 2026-04-10
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This is a research summary, not medical advice. Body Signals is an independent research digest — it summarises published research for informational purposes and is not a healthcare provider. ADHD management is highly individual — what works for one person may not work for another. These are tactical systems, not medical treatment. If you suspect untreated ADHD, speak with a physician or psychologist. ADHD commonly co-occurs with depression and anxiety; if you are in crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, Canada and US), text HOME to 741741 (Crisis Text Line, US) or CONNECT to 686868 (Kids Help Phone, Canada).