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Overview
Performing a task in the presence of another person. The other person doesn't need to help — they just need to be there, working on their own thing.
Why it works
Social facilitation (Zajonc, 1965, and modern ADHD co-working research) shows that passive presence anchors attention and reduces the "pain" of starting. Mirror neurons and mild social accountability do the work that willpower cannot.
Steps
- 1
Find a partner — a friend, roommate, video-call buddy, or paid service like Focusmate.
Focusmate pairs you with strangers for 25- or 50-minute silent work sessions. Surprisingly effective. - 2
State your goal specifically out loud before starting: "I am going to draft the first paragraph of this email."
- 3
Work silently for a set period. Resist the urge to chat.
Common Pitfalls
- Chatting instead of working — body doubling is not a hangout.
- Waiting for the "perfect" partner instead of starting with whoever is available.
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Last updated: 2026-04-10
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This is a research summary, not medical advice. Body Signals is an independent research digest — it summarises published research for informational purposes and is not a healthcare provider. ADHD management is highly individual — what works for one person may not work for another. These are tactical systems, not medical treatment. If you suspect untreated ADHD, speak with a physician or psychologist. ADHD commonly co-occurs with depression and anxiety; if you are in crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, Canada and US), text HOME to 741741 (Crisis Text Line, US) or CONNECT to 686868 (Kids Help Phone, Canada).